Locked in Love

Locked in Love

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The Triana Bridge in Seville is one of the most romantic parts of the city. I’ve walked across it many times and I always see people getting their pictures taken there – especially couples – with the calm waters of the Guadalquivir River in the background. But this romantic location plays a part in another tradition for love-struck visitors: For if you walk across this bridge, you will see an interesting collection of padlocks attached to its iron railings. You will see a collection of love locks.

Love locks are a growing phenomenon in many cities in Europe. In general, these are padlocks that couples attach to public fixtures, like bridges, as a symbol of their relationship. And by throwing away the key, this represents their eternal love and commitment for each other – and their relationship becomes sealed forever.

Nobody really knows where love locks come from; there are many theories. For example, many people believe that the tradition comes from the book ‘Ho voglia di te’ (2006) by Italian author Federico Moccia, whose characters attach a padlock to a lamppost on the Milvian Bridge in Rome and throw the key into the river. And ever since, the Milvian Bridge has attracted couples from all over the world who come to attach their own symbol of love.

But the Most Ljubavi (‘The Bridge of Love’) in Vrnjačka Banja, Serbia is completely covered in love locks – and some have apparently been there since before the Second World War. The bridge had been a meeting place for an engaged couple, a woman and an officer, whose engagement then broke up when the man fell in love with somebody else. Devastated, the woman eventually died of a broken heart. So, young girls began to write their name and the name of their loved one onto a padlock and attach it to the bridge, throwing the key into the river. By binding their love, they hoped to never share the same fate as the heartbroken woman.

However, even symbols of love can cause problems.

There is a lot of concern that love locks are actually damaging bridges. For example, a few years ago, the lamppost on the Milvian Bridge became so threatened by the weight of all its love locks that it nearly collapsed. So, to avoid further damage, many padlocks were removed and people were encouraged to stop this tradition. But in 2007, the mayor of Rome decided to have steel columns constructed and these were placed on the bridge for couples to hang up love locks again.

Similarly, there had been concerns in Moscow, Russia about the Luzhkov Bridge. However, the city offered an alternative: a metal tree, to be used for attaching love locks. And now there are many more trees, creating a whole forest of love locks.

But not every city is as accepting to this tradition as Rome or Moscow – like Seville.

Yes, there's a collection of love locks on the Triana Bridge, but while couples think that their symbol of love will stay locked forever, Seville authorities have them removed. The city considers these padlocks a form of vandalism, believing that they are ugly and that they ruin the beauty of their bridge. Nonetheless, love prevails as couples resist and continue to attach padlocks to the bridge’s railings.

Love locks come with a lot of superstition. Whether it’s a form of protection or just an expression of affection, people are clearly enchanted by the idea of eternal love. But with just a padlock and a key, can love really be bound forever? Well, many couples think so, using their love lock as a physical token of their relationship. And this tradition is now so popular in many European cities - in general, the majority of love locks are left untouched, and some are even encouraged; however, many are also removed.

Therefore, for all those love-struck couples on the Triana Bridge in Seville, will their love really remain eternal once the physical token of their relationship has been destroyed?

Or is that just a silly superstition?

Discussion

What do you think about 'love locks'? Is it a silly superstition or the key to finding true love?

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Thaidai's picture
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It is also a tradition in Korea on a bridge there that I know of, after watching a comedyThai movie about a love struck couple on holiday in Korea.

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Jonathan's picture
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That's really interesting, Thaidai - so, it's a tradition in Korea too. Love locks are great! I wonder what other countries around the world use love locks. (Did it work for the lovestruck couple in the film you saw?)

Jonathan (LearnEnglish Teens Team)

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I think,this very good tradition,and true key to finding true love!
In Ukraine, after marriage, the couple hangs on the roadside bridge lock, key to which are thrown into the water as a sign that they were nothing can separate!
In Odessa you can see heart with locks!This beautiful!!!))))))))

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rreze's picture
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I really thing this "love locks" are interesting .. (I saw it in movies)
here in Ulcinj people don't "lock love"... But a few days ago I saw a lock at the fence near the sea,with two names on it.. it was really unusual ..because it was the only lock there.. :))

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Natalija's picture
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I'm from Serbia and I saw The Most Ljubavi in Vrnjacka Banja. It's really amazing, and it's tradition there to buy a key and to throw it down the river. I tried it when I was with my friends there, just for joking. It's the biggest tourist attraction there.

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Stela.M's picture
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love is great thing..... love is just like the rainbow after the rain,is the light in the end of the tunnel.....is the most beautiful thing you can ever feel....love locks simbolise the love locked in our hearts which is wonderful...... unfortunately in albania there isn't a wall covered with these locks.....i would love to put my own lock there........so cuteeeeeeeeeeeeee......

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Demy's picture
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Hi, Stela.M ;) I like your comment and I agree that love is like rainbow in our life.....
Can I ask you? Are you from Albania? How old are you? ;)
Looking forward to your answer :)

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Stela.M's picture
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hi demy......i 'm happy you liked my comment ......... i'm from albania ...i'm only 14 years old...........what about you....

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Hi, Stela ;) I am 15 years old. I am from Ukraine :) Many people think that it's the same with Russia, but it isn't right. So do you know about my country? Because it isn't very popular, but it's beautiful.... Can you tell me something about Albania, if it not hard for you? :)

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Stela.M's picture
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albania is a very small country,but here live very nice and friendly people.albania is situated in the southwest of balkan peninsular....it has a popultaion over 3 million people....if i keep talking about albania,word will never end.....so what about ukraine?

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Thanks, Stela :) Ukraine is a big country... Ukraine is one of the largest countries of Eastern Europe. The capital of Ukraine is Kyiv. It has state borders with Russia, Belarus and Moldova. It also borders on Poland, Czechia, Slovakia, Hungary and Romania. In the south it is washed by the Black and the Azov seas. The population of Ukraine is about 47 million people... People speak Ukrainian, the official language of the country. The national currency in Ukraine is hryvnia.There are a lot of plaaces to see in Ukraine and to be proud of :) There the Carpathians with their legends, castles, cathedrals and unique traditions. There`s Kyiv-one of the oldest cities in Europe, with it`s historical monuments, museums, theatres, exhibitions halls, art galleries and it`s rich cultural life. The Ukrainians are a gregarious people who will often gather in cafes or street markets to socialize. What are you favourite singers and songs? What kind of music do you like to listen? :)

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hi demy.....me favourite sigers are:taylor swift,rihanna,adele,beyonce and i also love rappers like eminem or LIL WAYNE.i think they are just great...i listen to R&B ,hip hop ,metallica etc.i love taylor swift(even she's not an r&b /hip hop/metallica singer? because she has painful songs ,she talks a lot about love......you know my opinion about love !!! what about you? can you tell me some of the most famous singers in ukraine??
love stelaaa

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Demy's picture
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Hi, my dear friend <3
I complitaly agree with you bout favourite singers. Me too I like taylor swift too much =) So I listen mostly rock, hip hop ,metallica and pop. But I can listen all kinds of music because my mood is very changeable =)
So there are some names of famous Ukrainian singers : Ani Lorak, Éryka, Alyosha, Bumboks, Zlata Ohnevych, Okean Élʹzy (Ані Лорак, Эрика, Alyosha, Бумбокс, Злата Огневич, Океан Эльзы). If really I don't like Ukrainian and Russian music. I prefer more foreign music... but I can give you a name of one song in Ukrainian (not Russian language). You can find it on YouTube. It's Zlata Ohnevych 'Зозуля' (In English cuckoo :). Do you like this song and language? And what about famous Albanian singers and songs? Can you give me a name please?
Your new friend Demy <3

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hi my dear friend......some famous singers in albania are: miriam cani,elvana gjata,ronela hajati etc...the group i love is babastars and you can also find it in youtube...i agree with u ..i also love foreign music.love stela<3 :*

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Hi, Stela.M.,
I like your comment and your thoughts about love, it's really true; love can be our biggest motivation and if we love, we can change this world on better. Greetings:).

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hi "something nice".....i'm also interested in you ....i like your comments and i think you're coooollll.......i hope we become great friends...what about you...do you have the same opinions as me? greetings from albania

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Hi, Stela:)
Sorry for answering late, I haven't seen your reply.
I'm glad you like my comments:). I'd like you to be my friend. You have a nice photo:).
So, what do you like doing in your free time? Do you have any hobby?
<3

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Stela.M's picture
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hi something nice........that's ok..... you have such a nice photo too........i love listening to music and reading is my hobby......i love playing basketball.i practise it 3 times a week and i think i'm good at basketball.....what about you? can you tell me your real name cause here you are called"something nice" and i don't think this s your real name ,isn't it? (:P) so tell me more about you,your hobbies,your city.....love stela <3

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Hi, Stela:)
So, you're right, my real name isn't Something nice. I'm Natalija.
Well, I'm almost 17 years old, and I like, as you, to read in my free time, and I like dancing the most. It's almost my profession, since I've been dancing since I was 5 and I'm attending the ballet high school. My hobby is also learning foreign languages, and I 'm trying to learn it as much as possible. I like travelling very much and I'm an adventurer. I live in Belgrade now, but I actually come from Dimitrovgrad. Belgrade is the capital of Serbia, and I like it very much. I've been living there for 3 years, and it has beautiful sites to visit. It's firstly the tower of Calemegdan. It's one of the ancientest historical places here, and it has a huge importance for Serbians. I like to go for long walks there, because the river Danube is nearby, so it's beautiful to observe it, especially in the night. Dimitrovgrad isn't so big city, rather a town, but it's so kind and agreeable to me, because that's the place my father comes from, and it's my real home. I go there very often at summer, and it's almost in Bulgaria, since it borders with it.
And where do you exactly live in Albania, in what city? Can you tell me something about it and about the people in Albania?
<3

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hi natalija .....so you are 4 years older than me.however you are my best friend now....you are such an interesing girl.....you wanted to know more about my city...well ..... tirana is the capital city of albania.it has a population around 1 million people and it is such a nice city.....i hope you will visit it sometimes ...i hope we meet together this summer cause i'm gonna visit SERBIA............ I'm a bit "crazy" (:P),a good friend,sociable etc.........tell me more about you please..............i wanna know you better.love stela

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Hi, Stela:)
I also think you're an interesting and friendly girl. I hope I'll visit Tirana once. I wish you to have great time in Serbia; Serbians are very hospitable people and our country is beautiful:). Well, I think I'm a good person, outgoing, although my friends at school think I'm shy:). I'm an adventurer, and I'm always trying to do something new every day. My sister thinks I'm a little crazy and too imaginative.I like dreaming about my future. I'm an excellent student and I'm attending ballet school and Gymnasium. I like traveling very much and I'd like to visit all countries of the world. I've been in many countries, including Turkey, the UK, the USA, Greece, France etc., but I'd like to visit Germany, Switzerland and some Asia's countries, like India, Iran etc.
I like sleeping, shopping, reading, learning new things, writing stories, playing sport, ballet etc.
What're your plans for future? Do you have any brothers or sisters?
<3

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hi again my lovely friend natalija ........ i have got a little brother called stiven and he is only 5 years old........i also want to visit germany and switzerland in the future because i learn german at school and i want to practise it.......i want to be a famous scientist in the future ..my favourite school subjects are :chemistry.physics,maths and biology .....i have got a billion plans for the future but i'm sure i can't make my dreams come true..i want to meet angelina jolie and nicki minaj just once in my life....they are my idols ........can you tell me more about your sister? about your favourite school subjects??????? love your friend stela <3 :*

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I think love locks are just for fun,you don´t need an object to represent love,if you love someone you do everything to show it.
And imagine you break up with your boyfriend and you had put a love lock ,it will be a remainder of that broken relationship.

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June's picture
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I agree with you, MALINE. This is a nice tradition, but It doesn't mean that their love will last forever. Falling in love with somebody is sacrificing ourselves for her/him. Loving doesn't mean we have to stay with them all the time, It means we have to do everything to make our lovers happy, even get away...

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lili's picture
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I'm from Albania and we don't have this tradition here i don't know why becouse it looks amaizing and "Locked in Love"....<3;)

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