Can, could and would for invitations, offers, requests and permission

Can, could and would for invitations, offers, requests and permission

Instructions: 

As you watch the video, look at the examples of can, could and would for offers, invitations, requests and permission. They are in red in the subtitles. Then read the conversation below to learn more. Finally, do the grammar exercises to check you understand, and can use, these structures correctly.

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Sophie's in Hong Kong for Chinese New Year. At home it’s cold and Oliver is making soup.

We use the modal verbs can, could and would to offer to do things for people or to invite them to do something. We also use them to make requests or ask permission to do something.

What are modal verbs?

They are a type of auxiliary verb we use with other verbs to add more meaning to the verb. After modal verbs we use the infinitive form without to.

Modals are not used with the auxiliary verb do; to form the negative, we add not after the modal. To ask questions, we put the modal in front of the subject.

Hey, you couldn't pass me that plate, could you?        
Can I have a taste?    
                 

Modals do not change in the third person singular form (he/she/it) in the present simple.

Sophie can send photos.

Modals seem quite easy to use. What do we use them for?

We use them for lots of different things, and the same modal verbs can have several different uses. Today we are just going to look at offers, invitations, requests and permission.

Right, fire away! I mean, you can fire away if you like.

Oh, you’re giving me permission. Thank you. We use would + like  a lot for offers. It’s very useful for different situations.

Would you like to come to our house for dinner?
Would you like some cake?
Would you like to celebrate Chinese New Year with us?

For more informal invitations you can use can + get. Get means buy in this context.

 Can I get you a drink? 

We also use  would  and  can  for offering to help someone.

Would you like some help?
Can I help you?
Can I give you a hand with that?

That sounds very strange, Can I give you a hand?.

It just means Can I help you?.

We also use modals for asking for something (making a request or asking permission).

Can you do me a favour? (more informal)
Could you say thanks to your mum for me? (more polite)
I’ve finished my homework. Can I go now? (more informal)
Could I speak to Amy, please? (more polite)


What’s the answer? Yes, you can. / No, you can’t.?

Not normally. Usually the positive answer is:

Yes, sure. / Yes, of course. / Certainly.

We usually avoid a direct “No” in the negative answer. We’d say something like:

Well, I’m not sure. / Tomorrow night’s a bit difficult. / Um, actually, she’s not here at the moment.

Ah, so you need to listen carefully to see if the answer is yes or no.

Absolutely. We don’t like saying no in English.

We also like to use longer structures in more formal situations:

Do you think you could do me a favour?           
Would you mind closing the window, please?
Could you tell me how to get to the town centre, please?

Yes, but isn’t the pronunciation important too?

Ah, you mean the intonation? Yes, that’s very important, I’m glad you mentioned that. It can make all the difference between sounding polite and rude. It’s very important to get it right if you want a stranger to do something for you. You need to get 'up and down' movement in your voice.

Right. One more thing, do you think you could  help me with my homework now? It would only take about an hour.

Um, well, actually …

 

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Discussion

Would you like to join in celebrations from a different culture to yours? Could you tell us about a typical celebration in your country?

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Mabdelaziz's picture
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Hi learn English team,
Hope you are doing well.
I have a question out of topic if you do not mind.Could you please clarify is the following statement passive form or what "I see you have been busy"

Also I have other question mentioned in the above practice " Could you tell me where the nearest bank is, please?"
could you please advise if we can say where is the nearest bank,please? and give the same meaning.

Thank you for your help.

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Hi Mabdelaziz. Thanks for your questions.

The first sentence isn't passive. The passive is made of some form of 'be' (e.g. is / are / was / will be / has been), and a past participle (e.g. written / made / finished). The sentence 'you have been busy' includes the verb 'be' in the present perfect (have been), which is the same form as the passive. But, it doesn't have a past participle. Instead, there's an adjective (busy).

Another way to think about it is this: passive sentences can often add by + an agent noun to show who performed the action (e.g. The thief was caught by the police. / You have been chosen by the school principal to represent the school at the national competition). But it doesn't make sense to add a 'by' phrase to 'you have been busy'. 

For your second question, yes - you can say that too. It means the same thing. But, the question using 'could' is considered more polite.

Jonathan (LearnEnglish Teens Team)

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Mabdelaziz's picture
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Dear Jonatahn ,
Thank you very much.
If you don't mind I want to clarify my point about my second question.It is about "IS" phrase .
"Where the nearest bank is? & " Where is the nearest Bank? my question is there a different between two sentences?
Once again thank you for you assistance.

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Jonathan - Coordinator's picture
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Yes, there’s a difference. Only the second one is correct. Let’s have a look, and I’ll mark the subject and verb with (S) and (V) so you can see the structure.

  1. Where the nearest bank (S) is (V)? (incorrect)
  2. Where is (V) the nearest bank (S)? (correct)

I’ve underlined the subjects. Sentences have the subject first and then the verb, but questions are the opposite: the auxiliary verb or ‘be’ first, and then the subject. These are questions, so ‘is’ must come before ‘the nearest bank’. That’s why sentence 2 is correct.

But, there’s something else to think about. Some polite questions start with “Could you …”, “Can you …”, “Do you know …” or something similar. Here are two examples:

  1. Could you tell me where the nearest bank (S) is (V)? (correct)
  2. Could you tell me where is (V) the nearest bank (S)? (incorrect)

This seems the opposite of the first pair of examples! Have you already worked out why? Actually, at the beginning of the question, there is “Could (V) you (S)”, so the question already has the verb/subject structure that a question needs to have. The rest of the question therefore follows the normal order (subject first, then verb).

It’s tricky! Does that make sense?

Jonathan (LearnEnglish Teens Team)

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I am from Colombia. This country have a lot of celebration though i don´t actually like to go in for they because are very loud, although i like the 20th of july because it´s the independence day, in my town the people normally make a parade at the central street and install a country flag in their home´s yard.

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LordDreamer's picture
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Could you explain me one thing, please? In my native language it's quite common to speak monotonously, but that's not a rule actually. And in the dialogue it is said "You need to get 'up and down' movement in your voice" I don't really understand how's that. Thanks!

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JoEditor's picture
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Hi LordDreamer,
That's a good question. The 'up and down movement in your voice' that is described in the explanation is called 'intonation' and it's really important when you're speaking English. First of all read this blog post all about intonation: https://www.britishcouncil.org/voices-magazine/how-english-learners-can-improve-intonation  It was written by a British Council teacher in Bangladesh and it explains it very well. Also this article on our TeachingEnglish website explains intonation: https://www.teachingenglish.org.uk/article/intonation Read the information on those two websites and then come back and ask if you have more questions. I hope that will help you. 
Best wishes, Jo (LearnEnglish Teens Team) 

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No, not at all. We celebrate two big festivals a year in our country which feature wearing new costumes, decorating ourselves, making delicious food, wishing each other, having fun with relatives. these festivals are anxiously awaited the whole year.

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Lillian's picture
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Hi, I don't quite understand "would you mind...." this type of question.
For example, if someone asked: "Would you mind lending me the book?" I'd love to lend the book to that person, shall I say:"Yes, of course." or "Not at all"?
I mean, when I say yes, does it mean "yes, I mind" or "no, I don't mind"?
It is so confusing to me...
Thanks in advance for answering my question!

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Hi Lillian. This is quite confusing but let me try to explain it. If somebody asks Would you mind doing XYZ for me? here are some possible answers.

  • No, not at all. (= I don't mind. This is agreeing to the request.)
  • Sorry, / Actually, I'm a bit busy now. (= not agreeing to the request. It's normal to say why - give some excuse.)

If you say Yes, of course, it may be unclear what you mean. Technically, it would mean Of course I mind but it would be strange because normally we wouldn't refuse a request that strongly. 

Does that help?

Jonathan (LearnEnglish Teens Team)

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DROPE's picture
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of course! , I think that is the best way to learn about other cultures.
In Ecuador we have typical celebrations like "MAMÁ NEGRA", that is a traditional festival in the city of Latacunga, in homage to different towns, The celebration features parades, It is a parade of popular characters, military, civil, ecclesiastical and mythical that give luster to the procession, each of these characters are chosen for their performance and work performed each year..

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pierina's picture
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Yes,of course.I really would like to celebrate NewYear in other countries:especially in Chine and America. People celebrate The New Year very well in my country.People in my country like the NewYear much.

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Eseban's picture
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I would like enjoy about another culture.
I'm from Ecuador , we celebrate Day of the Dead with a typical food of the country.

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stephania1799's picture
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I would like to enjoy a different culture.
In my country we celebrate with costumes, doing puppets, eating food and have fun with the family

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nandosc9's picture
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I really would like, I think that is the best way to learn about other cultures because, you don't only listen, you participate. You're parte of the celebation, something that also can be fun.
I'm from Ecuador, here we have typical celebrations like "The Festival of Fruits and Flowers", that is a traditional festival in the city of Ambato, in homage to the earth. The celebration features parades, performances, fireworks and beauty contests.

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mike95rob's picture
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I love to celebrate a different culture to mineand in my country it has lost a lot of the decelerations of our culture but there are cultures that still do

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Angielu's picture
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Yes, of course. I would like to celebrate Christmas in other country like EE.UU. In my country, people celebrate by eating turkey or pig.

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fernanda2000's picture
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I would like to know the Chinese culture because it is so different from my country Ecuador...
In my country many people celebrate The New Year

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LinaMalina's picture
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I am positive to any holiday any country. In our side as the new year many people celebrate the old new year. Traditions how to celebrate this holiday is not. In my opinion

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Amera's picture
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I like the way that explain the grammar it's easy to understand . it's interesting .
I'm wejdan and I'm using amera account .

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