Oliver, Daisy and Alfie are at Oliver and Daisy's home. Oliver is upset, so Daisy and Alfie decide to cheer him up.

After certain verbs we use the -ing form, and after other verbs we use the infinitive. Sometimes we can use either form and there is no change in meaning. Occasionally we can use either form and there is a change in meaning.

So what’s the rule for whether we use the -ing form or the infinitive?

Sorry, there isn’t a rule. You have to learn which verbs go with which pattern.

The verbs followed by  -ing include enjoy, mind, stop and recommend.

I told him you really enjoy cooking.
Would you mind helping me?
It didn't stop raining all day yesterday.
Daisy recommends trying Alfie’s tiramisu.

The negative is verb + not + -ing.

Imagine not having pizza! I eat it all the time.

Verbs usually followed by -ing

stop     finish     imagine     suggest     recommend      avoid      mind      miss      risk      enjoy 

I thought you could say: 'I recommend that you see that film'?

Yes, you’re right, you can. But we’re not looking at the more complex patterns with that or an object today.

OK, what about the verbs followed by the infinitive?

These include decide, want, promise, plan and forget.

She decided to go with Elliot instead.
I wanted to visit Rome.
She promised to take me there.
I planned to go to some real Italian restaurants.
She didn’t forget to phone.

The negative is verb + not + infinitive.

They decided not to make pizza.

Here are more verbs that are usually followed by the infinitive:

hope     offer     fail     agree     forget     manage     learn     afford     arrange     ask     expect     would like     decide     plan     promise     want     invite

What about the verbs that can be followed by either form?

These include start, begin, continue and bother.

It started raining. or  It started to rain.
Don’t bother waiting for me. 
or  Don’t bother to wait for me.

The verbs like, love and hate can be followed by -ing or the infinitive when talking about repeated actions.

I love reading long novels.   (British English or American English) 
I love to read long novels.    (American English)

But when we are talking about situations, we use the -ing form.

Paulo loves living by the beach in Rio.
Do you like working as a waitress?

So, 'I love learning grammar rules' or 'I love to learn grammar rules' are both OK?

Exactly. But there are some more verbs which can be followed by -ing or the infinitive, but the two options have different meanings, for example remember and stop.

I never remember to lock the door, and my mum gets really angry!
     (remember + infinitive =
remember something and then do it)
I never remember locking the door, but when I go back and check I always have.
     (remember + -ing =
remember something you did before)

She stopped smoking three years ago.
     (stop + -ing =
to not do something any more)
It was hot, so we stopped to have a drink.   (we stopped walking)
     (stop + infinitive =
to not do something in order to do something else)

Let’s stop to have a rest now.

OK, later on you can try to remember all the patterns.


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Think about your week. What do you enjoy doing? What do you not mind doing? And what do you avoid doing if possible?


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1oo1oo 8 February, 2014 - 03:47

I wanna talk about my week although there are ma y mistake in y sentences but.....
Te be honest i really enjoy to study english a d read short story maybe i dont have any talent in english buuuuuuut i am trying and i hope one day i learn englisg well....

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Gill_ketaram1998 3 February, 2014 - 12:42

i enjoy talking with my friend because i love my friend and them friendly they nice talking.

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Pm2001 3 February, 2014 - 12:40

I enjoy watching TV, playing on computer, playing with my rabbit because i like going with my rabbit to the garden :) she likes to eat grass.

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cklj 13 January, 2014 - 18:19

Well I love dancing, writing stories and poems, watching movies, reading books, surfing the Net and painting. I really enjoy talking and laughing with my friends and gossiping as we usually do. I don't mind doing the chores and helping my sister with her homework. Sometimes I try to avoid studying, but I can't so I guess I don't mind that too.

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Arif 1 November, 2013 - 19:27

hi i am new to this site and i have found it very helpful this website is really useful for us and i really enjoy
learning english

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Jonathan - Coor... 2 November, 2013 - 15:10

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Baylico 29 October, 2013 - 14:07

I enjoy listening to the music, drawing, talking my friends.
I'm not a craftsman, but I try to drawing and my friends say that my pictures are cool. without it, I can to play on the piano and i love it)) But there are things that I do not want to do. it means waking up at 6 45 o'clock, so on weekend I'll wake up at 9 or 10. Also I hate orchestra on weekends. it's terribly!!!!!!!!

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Thecleverest 29 October, 2013 - 12:59

In my opinion English is best subject in our school.English videos and music help us.You can know interesting things.I enjoy learning English.In spare time I go to sport and read books.I enjoy learning English.

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Rockerlml 20 September, 2013 - 15:26

i like listen to music an practice wrestling hearing static - x and iron maiden i avoid to go to the church

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Anaile 9 September, 2013 - 01:20

I enjoy studying english, I love learning new things.
everyday if it is possible I wake up ay 7 o'clock , I do chores, I help my sister to do her homeworks,
I like running at 8 pm. that's it.

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KLEA B 5 August, 2013 - 19:15

during the week i don't go out because i have to study i only speak with my friends on the phone.At the weekend i prefer to go out to drink a lemonade or even to read

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prezy 25 July, 2013 - 17:38

Hi:) I like listening English musics but ı cant understand. My listining skill is so bad how can ı improve it ?

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WildChild 24 July, 2013 - 13:19

I enjoy listening to music. I also enjoy playing video games and studying English on this site.
I don't mind tidying my bedroom. I avoid studying chemistry . :D

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directioner1D 17 July, 2013 - 14:23

hey peoples!! I put a heart to everybody.So the first:)))).......Turkey........

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RehinaParker 12 July, 2013 - 12:08

hello everyone i enjoy listening music and dancing... i like to surf in the net and to speak with my friends.....

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Laloheartcool 10 July, 2013 - 14:59

Hi all !! i enjoy dancing and reading my favorite novel ! . I like to watch movies or series . I also enjoy painting my nails ! . I enjoy learning English !! and i wish i could speak like a British accent :) .

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Natalija 25 June, 2013 - 19:47

Hi, taimooralvi!
I'm English learner, just as you, but I think I have experience with learning English and languages in general, so let me give you some advises. I hope they'll be useful. I don't know what's your level at English, but anyway, try first with basic grammar-tenses, articles, prepositions etc. When you have learned it, start with improving your conversation skills. You can start reading some short versions of books in English. I recommend you Charles Dickens, he writes very interesting books, and L.C.Montgomery wrote many good books. Do listening tests, and try to speak English as much as possible, at school, in English class, for example. Watch English and American films, listen to their music, and you'll see, your English will become very fluent and accurate. If you want, I can be your site friend and we could write to each other here for practice. Let me know if you agree:)

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